why are apple users incapable of just saying “phone” “laptop” etc why is it always “my iphone my ipad my macbook” like is it a brand flexing thing or do they just not know the words? you dont hear me saying shit like “damn i misplaced my samsung again” “my acer sounds like a jet engine rn” who talks like that
i would like to remind everyone that most disabilities come with comorbidities. what this means is that, most of the time, someone who is disabled does not have just *one* condition that causes them pain or difficulty.
for example, i have crohn’s, which is an autoimmune disease primarily affecting the bowels. i also have ehlers-danlos syndrome(eds), which is a connective tissue disorder. eds can make crohn’s worse because eds can affect your intestinal lining. crohn’s can make eds worse because crohn’s can also affect joint inflammation, so loose joints become more inflamed than they otherwise would. both can severely affect fatigue levels.
these are just two things i deal with. there are other comorbidities and complications i deal with, like fibromyalgia, dysautonomia, nerve damage, and more; but eds and crohn’s are the easiest to explain how they play off each other.
i don’t think abled people realize that most disabled people deal with something like this. i see disabled people online being very open about their multiple diagnoses to raise awareness and understanding - and then i see abled people shitting on them because “there’s no way you can have that many things wrong with you.”
but this is the truth of the situation: being disabled is almost never a straightforward, one-and-done diagnosis thing. even if it starts as one diagnosis, many people discover or develop other problems as their health changes. or even develop other issues because of medications! the intravenous medication i took for crohn’s causes arthritis in a significant number of patients, and is most likely responsible for just how severe my joint inflammation gets.
so if you’re abled, and you’ve ever seen a long diagnosis list and thought maybe someone was exaggerating - please step back and rethink. this is a very common thing. i would dare to guess that more people are multi-diagnosis than single-diagnosis. you are not helping anyone by accusing someone of faking or exaggerating, you are just being ableist.
as a disabled person, it takes immense bravery to speak openly and publicly about how our lives are affected by our disabilities, and we do not deserve to be treated poorly for being honest about our realities. your lack of knowledge or willingness to learn should not become our additional pain.
I don’t want anyone to get mauled to death by a bear. I think it’d be awful if that happened. I think it’d be awful even if I didn’t particularly like the people involved, or the type of people they are.
But if a bunch of people paid $250k to go on a Bear Tour where a tour guide takes you to visit a mother bear’s den to go stick your face in there and see mama bear and all her cubs, and they all got mauled to death, well…it’s still awful and I still don’t want them to get mauled, but I’m gonna make fun of their stupid asses.
